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John Gustav-Wrathall and Allison Dayton: I’m Still Here

A Gay Mormon's Path to Belonging. Plus: Join us for a live discussion of the Big Question "Does Church History Matter?" on June 26 at The Compass!

Today, we’re sharing a really special session from last year’s Faith Matters gathering, Restore.

It begins with a short, beautiful film where you’ll hear John Gustav-Wrathall share his journey as a gay Latter-day Saint—a journey shaped by deep spiritual seeking, a loving and enduring partnership with his husband Goran, and an eventual return to his ward family. John speaks with honesty and courage about learning to trust the quiet, steady voice of the Spirit in the midst of complexity. His story holds both deep pain and profound peace.

After John’s story, Allison Dayton joins him on stage for a powerful conversation. As a mother of a gay son, she brings deep empathy to this space. She is the founder of Lift+Love and helped create Gather—a Christ-centered conference for LGBTQ individuals and those who love them. You can find more details here, along with John’s full story.

This session was a beautiful reminder of what it can look like to wrestle with faith and walk the path of love. We’d love to invite you to join us for more conversations like this in person at Restore this year, September 25–27 at UVU in Orem, Utah. It’s going to be an unforgettable weekend with incredible speakers including Sharon McMahon and Arthur Brooks, along with outstanding music, art, and community, all centered on restoring faith, belonging, and wholeness. Early-bird pricing ends June 30, so now’s a great time to register. Bring a friend and get the early-bird group discount for the absolute best deal.

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